As often as I get asked questions on how to attract a committed relationship, I get asked about the problems and issues that stand in the way of attracting lasting love.That is the crux of the issue. Let me explain. You may now understand that the Universe is an intention fulfillment machine. It matches and mirrors back the thoughts and emotions you're transmitting. The Universe is conscious of you and all that operates under the energy management system known as the Law of Attraction.
Desire and Desperation - You need to let go of the desperation,While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.
What's holding most people from attracting their love relationship is that in the very next thought they think what's wrong with me. Let me make this more graphic by example. Cynthia is a client of mine who wants to meet her love match which whom she can build a life. She wants to have a family and her career. So Cynthia is very clear about what she wants. And in the same conversation she tells me about how worried she is because she's getting older. She doesn't have that much time to start a family. And wonders if she really can juggle career and family successfully.
Have you figured Cynthia's primary problem in attracting love? She has expressed what she wants and in the next statement countered her desires by sending signals of what she doesn't want. This happens so often for most of us, we hardly notice.This is where you need to look if you're one of the singles who haven't had lasting love attraction success. Find the incongruity in your thoughts and feelings. Keep your attention on what you want. Watch for thoughts that take you down the path of anxiety, frustration, low self-confidence, and dread.
You must be a match on the inside before it will show up on the outside. It's always an inner game. And I hope you'll be easy with yourself and make it fun. Life is meant to be enjoyed and if you want it with the love of you dreams.Most people don't realize that the law of attraction works for everything. It's not just about attracting money, or that new job or car, or any other material thing you may want, it's about using it to attract everything you want in your life, including attracting love. Since the law of attraction is always on and you're attracting everything into your life already, why not do so consciously.
While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn't because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.
An individual would probably say it was not yet my moment in time, however, when I arrived single in my latter thirties, I started to get quite a bit concerned. Why didn't a vision board help me? Why did all those affirmations not get me companionship? I was tired of looking at the hot pink hat directly opposite the entrance to my empty bedroom, as per the Feng Shui manifesting guide I was using.Suddenly I had a lucky opportunity. I had been whining to my sympathetic sister about how lonesome I was. A friend of hers had left in her possession a simple love spell. She said she would send it to me if I wanted it. She did not need it since she currently had a boyfriend.
Since I had digested every last relationship publication I could find, made sure each and every social event I attended was geared to acquiring love, learned country dancing, obtained cosmetic surgery, hired a "find your soul mate" coach, attended a "Getting Love After 35" course, I really had exhausted most every traditional method I could find to acquire love.I figured, "What exactly do I have to lose?" In just one week I had the relationship candle magic ritual in my hands and ignited it.The first thing that happened was I relaxed. I decided if this thing was going to work, I would put it to the test. Therefore, I quit venturing out on Friday nights to destinations where I could meet a love interest. Instead I went out with a handful of individuals from the job for a beer at a neighborhood pub.That day, 10 days after doing the love spell, like magic I met a guy who became my significant other for the next eight years!
Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be: zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared? extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly,a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You's for the Universe.Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.
Desire and Desperation - You need to let go of the desperation,While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.
What's holding most people from attracting their love relationship is that in the very next thought they think what's wrong with me. Let me make this more graphic by example. Cynthia is a client of mine who wants to meet her love match which whom she can build a life. She wants to have a family and her career. So Cynthia is very clear about what she wants. And in the same conversation she tells me about how worried she is because she's getting older. She doesn't have that much time to start a family. And wonders if she really can juggle career and family successfully.
Have you figured Cynthia's primary problem in attracting love? She has expressed what she wants and in the next statement countered her desires by sending signals of what she doesn't want. This happens so often for most of us, we hardly notice.This is where you need to look if you're one of the singles who haven't had lasting love attraction success. Find the incongruity in your thoughts and feelings. Keep your attention on what you want. Watch for thoughts that take you down the path of anxiety, frustration, low self-confidence, and dread.
You must be a match on the inside before it will show up on the outside. It's always an inner game. And I hope you'll be easy with yourself and make it fun. Life is meant to be enjoyed and if you want it with the love of you dreams.Most people don't realize that the law of attraction works for everything. It's not just about attracting money, or that new job or car, or any other material thing you may want, it's about using it to attract everything you want in your life, including attracting love. Since the law of attraction is always on and you're attracting everything into your life already, why not do so consciously.
While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn't because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.
An individual would probably say it was not yet my moment in time, however, when I arrived single in my latter thirties, I started to get quite a bit concerned. Why didn't a vision board help me? Why did all those affirmations not get me companionship? I was tired of looking at the hot pink hat directly opposite the entrance to my empty bedroom, as per the Feng Shui manifesting guide I was using.Suddenly I had a lucky opportunity. I had been whining to my sympathetic sister about how lonesome I was. A friend of hers had left in her possession a simple love spell. She said she would send it to me if I wanted it. She did not need it since she currently had a boyfriend.
Since I had digested every last relationship publication I could find, made sure each and every social event I attended was geared to acquiring love, learned country dancing, obtained cosmetic surgery, hired a "find your soul mate" coach, attended a "Getting Love After 35" course, I really had exhausted most every traditional method I could find to acquire love.I figured, "What exactly do I have to lose?" In just one week I had the relationship candle magic ritual in my hands and ignited it.The first thing that happened was I relaxed. I decided if this thing was going to work, I would put it to the test. Therefore, I quit venturing out on Friday nights to destinations where I could meet a love interest. Instead I went out with a handful of individuals from the job for a beer at a neighborhood pub.That day, 10 days after doing the love spell, like magic I met a guy who became my significant other for the next eight years!
Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be: zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared? extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly,a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You's for the Universe.Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.
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